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Comfort CHECKLIST – Before You Go Out

Making Everyone Comfortable With You

Creating comfort is essential to maximize your chances at getting dates with girls after having gotten their phone numbers. The reason is that if she is attracted to you than she will probably give you her phone number in the moment but, if she doesn’t feel comfortable with you than she will likely not be comfortable in meeting up with you again. Here are some points to help in creating comfort:

Make sure to read this as a refresher right before you go out! It will sink into your mind and you’ll naturally do it.

Body Language

Making eye contact
Staying relaxed
Not moving overly fast
Breathing regularly and slowly
Having strong, open body language
Using the appropriate kino throughout the interaction

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Building a Connection -The Most Important Step

The Foundation Of Relationships

Building a deep connection with a woman should a fundamental aspect of your game, it is something that often gets overlooked but, if you don’t have this skill down than you will miss a lot of opportunities. Consider this as the foundation of pick up, relationships and sex.

Talk about Deep Topics

The need for fulfillment and purpose that each one of us has.
How extremely important it is for trust to exist between people.
How great it feels to help others and do something unselfish.
What spirituality means to her.
A true connection between human beings is something that is oftentimes missing in society.

Her passions ( What are you passionate about? )
Her childhood memories ( When you were a child, what did you do during sunny afternoons?)
Who and what influenced her most ( Do you have any idols? )
The most important people in her life ( Who do you talk to the most ? )
Her favorite actor, food, musician, artist ( What’s a good movie/band/place to eat these days?)

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Kino – The Touch That Will Get Her Excited

The First Touch

There is a certain skill to knowing when and where to touch a woman, do it right and you will create attraction and comfort with women. Here are some tips to help you use touch or kino effectively. (Kino is short for kinaesthetics which is the ability to feel movements and touch)

You can group the different types of kino into three major groups – minor kino, medium kino and major kino. You should always be touching because you need to allow a woman to become familiar to your touch. The three stages of touch are used linearly but you will constantly find yourself going back to the previous stages to make your woman more comfortable with you.

Start with Minor Kino:

Light touch on shoulder or arm to emphasize your points
Handshake,
High Five,
Gently brush her arm
Standing next to her with your arm touching hers
Any touch that is socially acceptable.

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Building Trust – The Foundation For Love

Building Trust

Trust is a major brick in the foundation of relationships between lovers (or anybody else). Here are some tips on how to build trust. Everything in a relationship is based on trust, from letting you into her apartment for the first time, to sharing deep and intimate secrets with you, it is the epicenter of human interaction.

If you’re craving for a girl to open up to you, then this is what you want to work on.

Approach

Talk about regular things in life that you have common ground on (i.e. working, family, cooking)
Ask questions, tell stories that cause her to feel trust towards you (i.e. I remember this time when I was dating this girl who everybody wanted to date at my office, everybody was so shocked when we announced that we had been dating for 3 months.)
Be mindful of your body language and remember to keep it positive! Unfold your arms, uncross your legs, show your palms and remember to smile.
Match and Mirror her body language gestures and it will cause her to psychologically identify with you. Don’t be too obvious about it though (i.e. subtly nod your head in agreement when she nods her head).

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