Category: Building Attraction

The Right Way To Be Cocky Funny

Being Funny As Hell

Cocky Funny is a great way to communicate to a women that you are confident without coming off as arrogant.  Done properly she will see you as a confident man who has a great sense of humor. This is just one of the techniques that you want to put in your arsenal of dating tricks. Use it as a spice to increase interest with women!

What To Say

Openers

  • Wow, you sure take your time don’t you? (she asks what you’re talking about) Well I have been standing over there for 2 minutes watching you check me out and you still didn’t come and talk to me.
  • So, do you always stand/sit next to the most attractive men in the room (it’s important to smirk so as to show that you “could” be joking) Credit to Cliff
  • Excuse me, do you have anything against good looking guys?  (she likely will answer with no)  Good, my name is _____ (again it’s important to smirk so as to show that you “could” be joking)
  • (If passes by really close) Excuse me, you just touched my ass…you know I usually charge for that but I will settle for you buying me a drink.  (make sure it’s slightly obvious that you are joking)
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DHV – You Are The SuperHero

DHV – The Basics Of Success

The definition of a demonstration of higher value (DHV) operates on the principle that “The more you are worth, the more desirable you are”.  It is simply a statement that increases your social status relative to the people around you.  Here are some ways to demonstrate higher value.

Direct DHV

A good way to DHV while being direct is to bring up accomplishments and facts about yourself in a contextual situation. For example, if people are talking about traveling, you could mention that you had a good time in New Zealand and that you recommend going to see the beaches with penguins.

Good story telling is one of the best ways of conveying massive DHV while still seeming natural. For instance, you could be telling the story about an adventure in another country where you mention that you absorbed the language in a few weeks. Using specific stories, you can DHV quite often.

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Making A Girl Smile – Sneaky Tricks That Work

A Great Smile – Just For You

If you know how to make a girl smile, then you will automatically be more successful with women in general. People like to smile, it makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside and these feelings will be associated with the person who has made you smile.

Wouldn’t you like a girl to feel warm and fuzzy when she thinks about you ? Let’s get to it:

Here are the kinds of smiles you are trying to get:

  • Genuine smile
  • Compliment smile
  • Impressed smile
  • Happy smile

And here are the kind of smiles you want to avoid:

  • Polite smile
  • Weird / “You are insane” smile.
  • I own you smile

Situational smiles

The easiest way to make a girl smile is to make use of the environment that you’re both in at the moment and to highlight something funny that is occurring. There is always something interesting, or funny happening if you pay attention to it.

For example, if you’re both waiting in line… make eye contact so that she notices you, and then immediately go into a huge fake yawn hinting that you’re bored of waiting line. This works great if there’s a huge line and no one is talking. The key is to be funny while retaining your dignity. If you make a fool of yourself, you’ll get the “you are weird” smile.

A more verbal approach in situational smiles would be to point something funny out to her. Usually talking about other people or items is an easy way to score a laugh. If you were grocery shopping and you happened to be in the cheese isle, you could say in a serious tone: “This cheese reminds me of the moon”, and then break out a small grin. Its dumb, but it works.

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Flirting With Women – Do It Better Than Most Men

Flirting Basics

When you hear the word “flirt”, what do you think? Some people may look upon it as something scary and impossible to learn but, once you really understand flirting you can make it a light, fun interaction with a sexual vibe to it. It’s simple to do and if you follow this model, then you’ll be ahead of 99% of men that don’t have a clue.

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DLV – The Fastest Way to Fail With Women

Examples of DLV

The definition of demonstration of lower value, or DLV for short is to do or say something that makes you less valuable in the eyes of the girl that you’re currently pursuing.  The idea of attraction is that we’re attracted to people that are valuable, DHV is the term to represent increasing that value and DLV would be decreasing that value.

Here are some general examples of DLV that should be avoided.

Common Examples of DLV

  • Self depreciating humor
  • Insulting (bring down) their friends
  • Trying to impress people
  • Perform too many favors
  • Being “the nice guy”
  • Not standing up for yourselves
  • Bragging about accomplishments
  • Being ignorant
  • Caring about what others think
  • Poor social awareness
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Matrix Style – Attraction Checklist To Memorize

Attraction Checklist

Here is a handy checklist to quickly summarize some key points to creating attraction with a women.

You’re going to want to read this over a few times right before you go out… so that it becomes part of you. You don’t want to consciously be thinking of all this while you’re out so just read it a few times so it sinks into your subconscious.

Opening

  • Your body language is strong, relaxed and open
  • You are speaking with a strong, clear voice
  • You are making strong eye contact
  • You have used a good opening line
  • You have cool friends with you
  • You have been friendly and talked to at least 20-25% of the people in the room.
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