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Dress To Attract Women – Clean Shirts And More

Looks that kill

I believe there’s a rather large misconception about how to dress to attract women. On the one hand, you have a group of people that what you wear really doesn’t matter and it’s not about your appearance. Contrastingly, there’s another crowd that says you need to dress up in a very clean and classy fashion to attract women. So who’s right? Are you supposed to dress up or simply not care?

Here’s the Real Answer About How To Dress:

You can’t put on horrible looking clothes, look lousy and then expect to automatically get a ton of attention from women. Dressing nice is more of a stepping stone to attracting beautiful girls, and if you choose to skip this step, you can still get there, but with a lot more effort. It’s possible to attract beautiful women to you even when you’re not looking great but the whole process, especially at the earlier stages, is much more difficult.

Any dating coach will tell you that it’s worth it to maximize your appearance and to look as good as possible with the available funds that you have. Then, no matter how good you are at seduction, at least you’ll get the best possible results for your level of skill. If you aren’t looking your best, then you’re only making it more difficult for yourself.

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Look Good In Front Of Women And The Mirror

The Basics of Looking Good

Before we go into looking good I am going to say it’s important to look your best rather than good. Everyone has what it takes to be able to attract attractive women. Even if you weren’t born with naturally attractive traits such as height, weight, skin, then it just takes a little more work to get yourself to the point where people will find you physically attractive.

Improving your appearance should be first and foremost done for yourself so that you like what you see when you look in the mirror.

When you take care of yourself in the best possible way, you’ll be proud of what you see and it will show in all your interactions. Secondly it should be done because you want to attract the most attractive women that you possibly can before even saying a word to them and looking as physically good as possible is one of the foundations of attractiveness.

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Become Naturally Attractive To Women In Days

The Basics To Being Good Looking

If you would like to attract girls without even trying, then you need to become a man with a well balanced life. If you have a lot of things going on in your life, you’re healthy and fun to be around, then people will be drawn to you. Here’s what you should do immediately to start on the path to becoming attractive.

Physically

Join the gym, health club or any other place where you can get a great daily workout. If you work out, you’ll automatically have attractive body language, you’ll look healthy and feel great.

Mentally

You always want to be stimulating yourself. This can be reading, learning something new like a language or playing an instrument. Not only will your mind be sharp, but seeing someone progress in life is attractive on it’s own.

Spiritually

Don’t be one of those guys that has absolutely no beliefs about anything. Find passion and search your soul to discover yourself. This might sound like a lot of random and weird talk, but if you can get in touch with the forces bigger than yourself, you’ll be at an advantage.

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10% More Confidence Around Women

First of all being confident around women means taking steps to being confident around everyone. What does this mean?

It means that when you began improving your self esteem your confidence is going to be going up around men and women and that everybody will began treating you with more respect.

Things you can do immediately

Get out of your comfort zone (i.e. approaching women is one of the fastest ways to gain confidence)
Do something physical: Exercise, run, stretch. You’ll feel stronger and more confident if you’re physically active.
Don’t be afraid to piss people off. In becoming confident it goes (almost) without saying that people are not always going to be pleased with the decisions you take. As soon as you confront a situation you’re unhappy with you’ll immediately get a boost in confidence.

Long Term Solutions

Make a concrete list of your boundaries, how you want to be treated and what you want in life. Then stick by it. When you know what you’ll accept and won’t accept, it will be easier to be stand up for yourself and not get pushed around.
Take a physical course that will improve your health and body. Examples are martial arts, yoga, rock climbing.
Sign up for improv and acting classes.
Sign up for the gym and work out a minimum of 2-3 times per week.

Going Out – Make Sure You Have This Covered

Before you go out to a bar, club or another social venue, you might want to run through this checklist to get yourself in the best possible state. Make sure to read this before you go out. This way you’ll be sure you didn’t forget anything!

Body & Appearance

You showered and have no body odor
Your teeth are brushed
You shaved appropriately
You stretched, exercised (push-ups, sit-ups)
Your clothes are clean and have no stains, nor are wrinkled

Logistics

You have a plan to get back home at the end of the night
Your apartment / house / room is clean in case you have guests (or women) over at the end of the evening

Mental & State

You’ve listened to music that pumps you up and makes you happy
You know where you’re going, and have a backup plan in case that place isn’t to your likings.

One of the biggest issues that guys have when going out is getting themselves into a fun happy state.

Well, here’s the simple brute-force way of putting yourself in a happy state. If you have a negative thought, just ignore it and force yourself to replace it with a happy one.

Every time the negative ones come back, replace it with a happy one. This may sound overly simplistic, but it works.

You’re set, go out!