Looking Good – The Basics
While appearance is far from being the only thing that attracts women it is still extremely important. Just imagine that you’re walking up to a woman and she has 30 seconds (or less) to determine if you’re the kind of man she wants to spend the rest of her life with.
Are you really going to be able to convince her with your wit and personality? Probably not… that’s why having proper appearance, tonality and body language is crucial.
Here are some steps you can take to appear at your very best:
Short Term
1. Stay Clean and Smell Good. Make sure you are clean, your hair is fresh and well-groomed, and put on deodorant and some cologne.
2. Get a Great Haircut. See a couple of hairdressers and get some advice on which haircut would look good on you and suit your type. Be creative and find a style that goes with you.
3. Find The Kind of Facial Hair That Suits You. Yes! How would you look with a mustache, chin-beard, full beard, long sideburns, any combination thereof, or shaven plainly clean?
4. Do a quick intense workout. If you only have a little time and want to give yourself some good body language, then do a quick yet intense workout. This will vary according to your skill level, but for instance: Do as many push-ups as you can, pull ups, crunches followed by a run. Working out your muscles will give you the ‘pumped look’, improve your body language and the cardiovascular exercise will give you a healthy glow.
5. Sleep If you’re planning on going out on a date the next day, make sure to get a great night’s sleep. Earlier is better and you’ll look 1.3x better if you do (yes I just made that statistic up, but the fact is that you’ll look better)
6. Shoes, iron. People notice how ‘clean’ you are. So the best quick fix you can do is to iron your clothes so it looks “new” and make sure that your shoes are clean and polished. Women notice shoes… a lot.
LISTEN and always make eye contact. Do NOT look at her lips while she’s speaking. She’ll intuitively know you’re thinking about sex. Look at her eyes and try to live in the moment and think of her as a friend not as someone you want to sleep with or take on a date…..just a friend. Take the pressure off and you’re more likely to be yourself!
Looking gorgeous and presentable will always start from being clean and by doing personal hygiene necessities. Women liked men who are conscious with their body and the way they look. The cleaner a man is the more he is attractive.
Men who are conscious of their appearance is good but not too much. You might intimidate the girl if you’re very conscious of the way you look. Besides, not all women are pleased with good looking guy. Others tend to choose those “happy go lucky” kind of person, who doesn’t mind the way they look.