How To Prevent Fake Phone Numbers

The meaning of a fake number

One of the biggest problems that guys encounter earlier on is that they get a lot of fake phone numbers from girls. If you ever encounter this, then you did something wrong during the approach. There is a misconception that girls give out their phone number to guys they like. Sometimes they give it out to be polite… and worse, sometimes they give it out in order to get rid of a guy!

So let’s take a closer look at the meaning of a number.

The meaning of a fake phone number

Let’s be brutal: a fake phone number means that the girl didn’t know how to get rid of you without hurting your feelings so she gave you a fake phone number so you would go away. In essence, the reason why you’ll get a fake number is because:

  • She wasn’t attracted to you
  • She didn’t feel comfortable with you
  • She didn’t have a reason to give it to you

How To Go On An Instant Date

Instant Dates – Why And How

Going on an instant date is probably the best thing you can you do when you meet a woman. If it’s a possibility to hang out immediately, why get a number, wait a few days and then meet up again? Instead, just go on the date immediately! Not only will it build more attraction but it will also almost guarantee that you’ll have a follow up date if the insta-date is a success. There really isn’t any downsides!

The 3 steps for an instant date

Step 1

The first thing you want to do if you want to have an instant date is to ask her what she’s doing and what her plans are as soon as you meet her. This can be done very casually within seconds of meeting the woman and these logistics will let you know if an instant date is possible. If it is, then it will help you plan it as well.

“So what are you up to today?” is pretty much the easiest line that will tell you everything. Find out what she’s up to, what she’s doing later on and what she likes.

Getting A Phone Number – Making It Inevitable

Getting That Phone Number

In general, if the interaction with the woman is going well, you’ll find that getting a phone number is very easy. The trick to get a number is to make it “the next natural step” in your interaction. Using this technique there is absolutely no way that you won’t get a number. It’s been proven, tested and it works every time (Ok, almost every time).

Making a phone number inevitable

The way to get a 100% success rate at when getting a number is to communicate with the girl that you should both do something together in the future. This is sometimes called future projections, but in reality, you’re just setting up a future date while in the current interaction.

Something as simple as:
“Hey, I think you’d really like this restaurant, we should go together sometime”.

Once she’s on-board, and curious to go with you. The phone number will just follow as the next natural step.

If you’ve already made plans together, how ELSE are you two going to meet up together?

Conversely, the only time asking for a phone number is awkward is when there is absolutely no basis for getting the number. If you’re just having a normal conversation, there might even be a little attraction, but then at the end you say: “Hey, can I get your number?” It comes out of the blue and your chances of success diminish.