Being Playful – The Secret
Be Playful
From the very first moment, you have to be in a playful mood. You can use a number of techniques to set that tone in the interaction, including:
Teasing
– Make tongue-in-cheek comments. Accuse her of undressing you with her eyes. Tell her something crazy, like “I’m a secret agent investigating the city’s female demographic”, and when asks if you are kidding her, say “Yes” with a coy smile and move on to the next topic.
Double-Entendres
Statements than can have two meanings: formally appropriate and sexually suggestive. She’s talking about her travels: “I spent a lot of time down south.” Say: “Down south?! You dirty girl!” Look for opportunities to introduce playful sexual innuendo into a conversation. At some point, tell her: “Look, I realize I’m hot, but please stop your constant innuendos. I’m not that easy.”
Facial Expressions
You want to be careful with them: let your facial expressions mirror your emotions. Change your face according to your inner reaction to what she does. If you disapprove of something, there’s no need to hide it! You’re not there to please her.
Final Thoughts
Sure: you’re talking to the girl because you’re attracted. But let the interaction be self-sufficient: if you are having fun with her and nothing more, then the girl will enjoy it. You’re both in the same place at the same time, you’re both attractive, and you’re enjoying each other’s company! That’s why it’s important to be positive. If you embrace that she’s there and she’s a wonderful person, you’re already halfway there!
