Building Trust
Trust is a major brick in the foundation of relationships between lovers (or anybody else). Here are some tips on how to build trust. Everything in a relationship is based on trust, from letting you into her apartment for the first time, to sharing deep and intimate secrets with you, it is the epicenter of human interaction.
If you’re craving for a girl to open up to you, then this is what you want to work on.
Approach
- Talk about regular things in life that you have common ground on (i.e. working, family, cooking)
- Ask questions, tell stories that cause her to feel trust towards you (i.e. I remember this time when I was dating this girl who everybody wanted to date at my office, everybody was so shocked when we announced that we had been dating for 3 months.)
- Be mindful of your body language and remember to keep it positive! Unfold your arms, uncross your legs, show your palms and remember to smile.
- Match and Mirror her body language gestures and it will cause her to psychologically identify with you. Don’t be too obvious about it though (i.e. subtly nod your head in agreement when she nods her head).
Hey man, I’ve been doing all of that with this incredible girl. That I’m really into, then awhile ago. This happened, she said that she doesn’t want to talk so often. Because she is afraid for this to turn into a relationship. I totally didn’t get this, what should I do next ?
I would recommend checking out the Attraction Checklist and work on building attraction as well as trust. If you just have trust and no attraction you will likely never be anything more than a friend to her. This is applicable whether you want a relationship or just friends with benefits.
Alex
she is either a testing you
or b afraid of past relationships
there are 2 ways to go
stop talking to here for a while
or just try to build sexual tension
if this dosnt work remember this
there are “many” beatifull women
if 1 dosnt like you well that’s there loss
pick another
“don’t” try to act like a frend
act like your vaugly interested
in her all of the sudden this will drive her crazy
gl
I think the girl is not interested on you or having a relationship. Perhaps, she has a past issues that haven’t been resolved yet. I suggest to confront her and ask her whether you have done something wrong that offended her. Trust is the main key in building a relationship. Without it definitely you will have a miserable relationship. It is great that you trust your partner even if your in a long distance relationship. For instances, if she had to go on a business trip with her co-league which is a man. If you trusted her you will totally allow her and won’t constantly check on her.
Yeah your definitely right. Trust is the main foundation in a relationship. So, be loyal, honest and have a regular communication. In that way, you will have a stronger bond that is difficult to destroy whatever hearsay will come.