Building Trust
Trust is a major brick in the foundation of relationships between lovers (or anybody else). Here are some tips on how to build trust. Everything in a relationship is based on trust, from letting you into her apartment for the first time, to sharing deep and intimate secrets with you, it is the epicenter of human interaction.
If you’re craving for a girl to open up to you, then this is what you want to work on.
Approach
- Talk about regular things in life that you have common ground on (i.e. working, family, cooking)
- Ask questions, tell stories that cause her to feel trust towards you (i.e. I remember this time when I was dating this girl who everybody wanted to date at my office, everybody was so shocked when we announced that we had been dating for 3 months.)
- Be mindful of your body language and remember to keep it positive! Unfold your arms, uncross your legs, show your palms and remember to smile.
- Match and Mirror her body language gestures and it will cause her to psychologically identify with you. Don’t be too obvious about it though (i.e. subtly nod your head in agreement when she nods her head).