What To Say During Conversations
Conversation
- Talk about positive topics of conversation that set her at ease (i.e. your little sisters, volunteering at the animal shelter, how great of an experience your last relationship was)
- Asking open ended questions about things that are important to her (i.e. What is important to her, who is her biggest influence, what kind of music she loves and why, etc…)
- Ask her to describe how it feels to meet somebody who you just feel comfortable with from the first moment you start talking.
- Show her that you are listening to her by repeating back to her (paraphrasing) what she is saying to you.
- Do not lie to her.
- Do an insta-date with her.
Final Note
Being able to create a feeling of comfort with a girl is a key to reducing flakes. However it is very important that you have attraction along with the comfort, if you don’t you will likely have a girl who feels comfortable enough to hang out with you but doesn’t feel too much in the way of sexual attraction towards you.
I will definitely know it by heart so that I can apply it smoothly and effortless.
Hey, thanks for your advice. Some of my friends described me as a chicken because every time I spotted a gorgeous woman I can’t speak and I can’t even approach her. With your article I have now the idea on how to do it.