Openers – A ton of them
Having a good opener ready to say beforehand is important because it will relax you not having to worry about what you are going to say at first. Seriously, just memorize a few of these and the next time you go out you’ll have the most difficult part handled (the first 10 seconds!)
Openers
- You know, I love how friendly we are in (whatever city you are in), why do you think we are so friendly here?
- Excuse me, can I get your opinion about something, what do you think is more important in a relationship having a deep connection or being physically attracted to each other?
- Hey there, I just saw you standing there and I had to come over and talk to you, my name is _______
- Excuse me, I am wondering if you could feel comfortable having a conversation with somebody who you just met (on the street, on the bus, in a café etc….)
- Hi, I have to get going soon but you seemed cool so I decided to come and talk to you for a little bit before…my name’s _____
- That’s a really nice (pair of shoes, necklace, earrings, dress etc…) where did you get it from?
- Excuse me, you have great (energy, posture, etc…) what’s your secret?
- Here is the deal – I am walking around this place and you are the only girl in here that is cute enough to even talk to. Great, now we are talking. (Credit Brad P)