Coffee Shop Approaches – Give Me Some Sugar

The coffee shop is a great place to meet single women who would welcome the opportunity to talk to you.  The great thing about coffee shops is that women will usually be very open to talk to you if you approach them properly.

What to say:

Situational Opener:

“That book looks interesting, what is it about.”

“I really like that (insert clothing article,  jewelery, etc…) where did you get it from?”

Direct Opener:

“Hi, I had to come over here and tell you that I think you are gorgeous.  Normally I wouldn’t have done it but I literally could not go through the rest of my day asking myself what would have happened if I would have came over here and talked to you.”

“Hi, I think you look…(3 second pause) absolutely gorgeous and I had to come over here and talk to you.”

“Hi, my name is ____ and I noticed you from a distance and thought that it would be nice of me to sit down and give you some of my company.”  (You sit down with a little smirk to convey that you were making a joke…well sort of ;))

Please note that you should be sitting down during or just after all the openers.

How to say it:

Body Language:

When you are walking up to her focus on keeping your breathing as deep as possible, this will help you to stay relaxed.  Focus on looking her in the eyes as you are talking and talk clearly and slowly.