Build Yourself Up
Picking up girls in a club goes by a different set of rules than picking up girls in daytime setting. In a club your attractiveness to a girl is proportional to how popular you are to the rest of the people in the club. The more people who want to talk to you the more interesting and attractive you will be to whichever girl that you decide to approach.
Here are a few tips on how to pick up girls in clubs:
Create Social Proof
Social proof is when somebody sees the way that everybody is being friendly and behaving as though you are special and, they see you that way as well even if they don’t know why everybody is treating you that way.
- Upon entering the club immediately great at least 25% of the people there with a quick greeting i.e. “Hey, how are you? Cool, I will talk to you later” and quickly move on.
- After greeting a large number of people and groups find a good piece of real estate in the club where you are very visible and there is a lot of traffic. It is best to have a friend or several who you like to talk to with you.
- Dress well, slightly flashy before going out, and make sure you’ve refined your body language so you carry yourself well.
- Get down solid eye contact and walk with your head held high and a smile on your face.
It is always my problem on how to open up with women especially if it is just the first time we’ve met. Your article just answered almost all of my problem.
I think women would probably prefer to be approached by men first. Then, it will be their decision whether to give you a response or not. But, is it alright to be rejected by women even though you had an enjoyable conversation?
I’ve tried your opinions. At first, I felt hesitate to do it but then I’ve regained my composure and greet any women I’ve meet. Afterwards, they apparently approach me.