Doing The Approach
Approach
Use one of the below openers to start a conversation with her:
- Do you have anything against good looking guys? That’s a relief, my name is ______ (keep a smirk on your face)
- Hey, I have a question for you…would you go out with a guy that you met in a place like this? Cool, my name is
- Hi, my name is ____, it’s such an amazing night tonight isn’t it?
- What kind of drink do you have there?
- Have you met my friend ____ (If she is with a group of friends and you are interested in one of them and not her)
Final Thoughts
The bar is a great place to meet women. Creating social proof by being friendly and sociable with everybody will take care of one of the most important parts of attracting girls, that is the girl seeing you as being popular and desirable to everybody else (This alone will make you very attractive to her). It is also important to focus on your being strong, relaxed and open. I would also highly recommend that you stay sober, it increases your chances when you are alert and able to think clearly.