Some Really Bad Approaches
Bad
“You’re hot, hi”
“I think you’re really beautiful, hi”
Direct openers immediately convey interest. In an instant, you communicate: “Hey I like something about you and I wanted to come talk to you”. The great thing is that if she accepts your approach, then it’s on! It means that she’s potentially interested as well. The subtle trick to a direct opener is to let her know WHY you’re approaching her… the more specific you are without blatantly gushing over her looks, the better the response will be.
Pros
Direct openers are quick, efficient and bold. They immediately convey interest, confidence and can be very effective.
Cons
Direct openers force a woman to judge you based on your appearance and a 3 seconds of interaction. Often, this isn’t enough to convey any personality which can be really attractive to women. With direct openers, if she doesn’t like your looks or your opener, she’s likely to reject you without even knowing you.
