Building That Attraction
Building Attraction
- Dress well and keep yourself well groomed
- Get her to invest in you on a regular basis i.e. Make photocopies for you, bring you a coffee, drive you places etc…
- When you talk about yourself use situations and values that relate to her own to build a connection with her.
- Make sure to build your social status by being sociable and friendly with everybody on a regular basis. This will demonstrate higher value.
- Be sure to communicate through stories that you are not the sort of guy who would brag to his co-workers that he slept with a girl at the workplace.
- Get her to qualify herself to you (i.e. I like the sort of girl is into physical fitness, are you physically active)
- Express interest after she has qualified herself to you. (i.e. I am impressed that you are into taking care of yourself physically, I think we could have a lot of fun getting together playing volleyball sometime).
Final Thoughts
Always remember that the girl’s reputation at work is at stake if she hooks up with you so it is very important to communicate to her that you are discrete. Even if she is attracted to you she won’t hook up with you if she thinks you are going to tell everybody. Communicate to her that you are not going
