Being Bold – Your Bread and Butter Approach
Direct Opener
- Hey, I just noticed you walking towards me and I had to stop you…my name is _____
- Hey, you seemed cool so I figured I would stop for a second to talk to you? What are you doing today?
- Hey, what’s up?
- Hey, where are you going?
- Excuse me, I just had to stop you and tell you that I think you look (pause for 2 or 3 seconds) absolutely beautiful…what’s you name?
How to Say It
Body Language
- Walk slowly and keep your face relaxed and a slight smile on your face
- (For girls walking towards you) When you are about 10 feet away from her point towards her from hip level and deliver your line while looking directly at her in a loud voice that makes it very clear that you are speaking to her.
- Once she is stopped than move to a position where, in order to look at you while you are talking she has to face in the opposite direction of where she was walking. This will make it easier to get into a conversation with her.
Final Note
Truth be told – most of the time a woman decides if she wants to talk to you before you even say anything. During the approach there is a second where she thinks “This guy is going to talk to me, do I want to talk to him or do I want to get rid of him”. By following the steps in this article you can maximize the chances that she will want to talk to you.
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