Situation Openers To The Rescue
Situational Openers:
- It’s pretty hot/cold in here eh?
- You look really familiar, did you ever (work at this place, go to this bar, etc…)
- That looks like a pretty cool book, what is it about?
- Apparently the weather is going to be (really good, bad, etc).
How to Say It
Body Language:
- Have a good posture and confident, open body language.
- Keep your breathing as deep as possible, this will help you to stay relaxed.
- Focus on looking her in the eyes as you are talking and talk clearly and slowly.
- Try to touch her inadvertently while you are talking (i.e. your leg brushes against hers, lightly touch her arm with your hand while you are gesturing.)
Logistics
- Attempt to find out as quickly as possible where she is getting off. You don’t want to start a good interaction and then watch her get off off at her stop before you have the chance to get her number. Make sure you get her number before she gets off if you can’t take her on an insta-date immediately.
Summary
As you can see there are some very standard, some might even say boring lines in the above examples. What is important to keep in mind is that the words that you are saying to the girl are only 7% of the communication. The other 93% is being accomplished through your voice, body language and overall vibe. Following the above points will go a long way to communicating the right message to the girl.
